Sociologists and psychologists note a paradoxical tendency in modern society. The person, becoming isolated in a circle of own problems and interests, feels lonely. It becomes more difficult to meet and even more difficult to strike up acquaintance to someone reliable and worthy. Earlier everything was much simpler…
«Lady, let me introduce myself. What is your name?» That is how our parents got acquainted and it was absolutely normal. This phrase sounded on the streets, on the dance floors, in public transport. Today such questions is considered tactless and only hopeless romantics can hope for casual acquaintance on the street.
Which of lonely women or men don’t dream to find the second half sooner or later?
Cult phrase «I can bypass the whole world to find someone» – is the certificate to that. Perhaps it isn’t necessary to bypass the whole world and just to look around slightly more attentively. Perhaps someone who is called a partner for serious relations now looks for this too and a long time.
- So,option first: Internet. You wonder, why do people trust the Internet. Look on «Facebook»: a door wide open, you want –you find anyone and start a conversation.
Internet of course is quite good piece, however it helps to create communication illusion, and not only illusion. Being registered on dating sites, in forums and in chats, some people do find partners. However, it is necessary to be very careful and ready to surprises as disappointment in the virtual partner. The acquaintance materialization moment – the first date, can become the last, as the appearance doesn’t coincide with the image, which has developed in your consciousness. This moment is key in the further relations of partners.
To avoid deep disappointments in internet acquaintance, it is necessary to be potentially ready to its illusiveness. The partner can also be made up and not the real person. Someone has created a virtual image and communicates from his name, unbolting the partner in this game more and more. If you feel that you get used and you like this communication, try to clear a situation as soon as possible. A real person wont begin to disappear or hide after uploading a picture. If you nevertheless were lucky and you have got acquainted with the real partner then the internet acquaintances which have safely endured a materialization phase have chance of existence.
- Option two: hobby. You can potentially meet your partner where you spend your leisure time: in dancing club, in library, in gym, in bowling, in a fun club, society of amateur photographers, in the tourist centre or the swimming pool – whatever it might be. But for this purpose you have to have a hobby, If there is no hobby – such option doesn’t work. It is always good to have hobbies to have fun in spare time and meet new people.
- Option number three:work. Look narrowly at your bachelors. Often you don’t see the potential partner in colleagues as the elementary habit to see the person in a working situation doesn’t give an imagination scope. Strain imagination and maybe you will find her and then parties, picnics and holidays.
- Option number four: rest. A trip on a boat, to a rest house, in a foreign tour. Romantic moods soar in the air, and it can be felt. You breathe more deeply. It is very easy to get acquainted here because everyone subconsciously is ready for it, clips are removed, the spirit of freedom intoxicated. However, saying goodbye after casual acquaintance is same easy as well as get acquainted (though there are also exceptions). Everything depends on an objective. If the person has come to have a good time, then very it will not be very easy to reconstruct him on a serious harmony, though it is possible. The main thing – to set the object and to choose the correct tactics. The most well-tried remedy – to surround the relations with romanticism and those things on which the partner has a deficiency in usual life: care, attention, sex, a food, humour, common interests.
- Option five: public work. If you are a member of public organisation – party, society of animal protection, protection of interest of consumers, youth movement – whatever. It can also be a good way to meet new people and hopefully the one.
- Option six: getting acquainted by relatives or friends. It is a good option, at least someone knows the person from a different side, already communicated with her and saw her in different situations. It is worth trying, as the percent of a successful outcome is quite high, thanks to internal readiness of potential partners for future relations.
Of course, there is great variety of options of acquaintances. It is not forbidden to get acquainted to anybody at any time and in any place. For those, who are ready to see the opportunities for a serious relationship in the forthcoming acquaintance perhaps, one of the above-mentioned options may be very useful.
Option 7: Where to look for sex?
If you are not looking to find a serious relationship and instead are looking for a one night stand, the best places to go would be bars and night clubs. It is good to do a bit of research on what are the good places to go before starting your adventure. An even easier way to get straight to bet is to simply Google for some escort agencies in your area. To start your voyage just check some of the hot London escort girls and make a phone call and soon you will get to see the beautiful girl.